One foot trampled on the violet, but it left the fragrance on the heel of the man, which is called tolerance.

Life is like the sea, tolerance for boating, rafting in the sea, to know the breadth of the sea; life is like a mountain, tolerance for the path, climbing along the path, to know the height of the mountain; life is like a song, tolerance is a song, and song, to know the beauty of the song. Since I remember, I have known a word: the sky is wider than the sea, and the heart is wider than the sky. If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow. “Heart to heart” is a way to cultivate one‘s mind.

Once, I lied to my friend in good faith, but it was just a white lie, but I didn’t know that my friend was furious with me. I was wronged in my heart! But I had to think about it for a while. In fact, it hurt my friend to do so, so I tried to bear the anger, and finally, we said good.

Imagine -- at that time, if I was also furious with him, the consequences would be unimaginable, both sides would lose, and a precious friendship would be lost. In fact, most of the time, the cause of misunderstanding is not to achieve “heart to heart”, not to think about each other‘s feelings, intolerable each other, resulting in an ugly ending.

When dealing with others, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts with his companions. Some of the injuries are unintentional and some are intentional. However, you should be magnanimous and be able to prop up the boat in the prime minister’s belly. In ancient times, a well-off man loved flowers and grass, and still loved orchids. He planted many orchids in the temple on weekdays and loved them more than before.One day, Gao Jie had to leave the temple for two days because he wanted to go out. Before he left, he specially told his disciples to feed and make flowers and plants well without any mistakes. But unexpectedly, it rained cats and dogs that night, and the wind was strong. All the flowers and plants in the hospital died because they didn‘t move into the house. The disciples gathered at the door, waiting for the master to come back and accept the scolding. After returning to the temple, the monk was heartbroken to see the flowers and plants he had cultivated carefully for many years destroyed, but he did not blame his disciples,Just calmly say, “I didn’t plant orchids to get angry.”

What is it to suppress the anger in his heart, what is it to stop him from getting angry, and what is it to let him face the immediate scene calmly? It is tolerance, which is great tolerance! Learn tolerance, learn to understand others, relax your heart, keep yourself in a good state of mind, and set up a gorgeous sail in life.