There is a wonderful connection between people. People often touch each other with their true feelings. This tells us to deal with the relationship between good people, to learn to be kind to others and to make a way for others.

From ancient times to the present, most of the people who have achieved great things have broad-minded and extraordinary bearing. Give way, thus creating a section of “general harmony” story. Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty ignored the past and made great use of Wei Zheng, thus creating the famous situation of “the rule of Zhenguan”.

“Give roses to others, and keep fragrance in your hands.” Be kind to others and make way for others is to be kind to yourself. During the Warring States period, Wu Qi, a general, loved the people as his son, which made his soldiers go on stage to kill the enemy and forget their lives. Xiang Yan, the general of the state of Chu, cared for the soldiers, so the people loved him very much. It can be seen that people are grateful. How you treat others, others will treat you.

Then, how can we treat others well and make a way for them? Confucius said, “do not do to others what you don’t want. Therefore, first of all, we should consider the feelings of others, consider the consequences before doing things, and not focus on ourselves_ To be cared by others, but not to give.

Secondly, we should be tolerant. To understand and tolerate more and more people around us is actually to support and help ourselves, because to treat others well is to treat ourselves well. Generally speaking, conflicts in life are nothing more than trivial matters. We should learn to understand others. In this way, people can get along with each other friendly, others will love you more, and your path will be wider and smoother.

Of course, to make way for others, we should also be smart to solve conflicts. When Goethe, a great German essayist, went out for a walk, he met a critic who criticized his works severely. Facing the arrogant words of the domineering critic, ”I never give way to a fool“, Goethe did not tit for tat, But with a simple language of ”I‘m just the opposite“, it cleverly strikes back at each other, and also well maintains its own dignity.

Only by learning to make a way for others, can we make ourselves melt into people, gain friendship, trust, understanding and support; only by learning to make a way for others, can we be full of happiness on the road of life, step on the world full of opportunities, and move towards the future full of hope. Let’s adhere to the principle of sincerity and leniency and get along with others with enthusiasm and courage!