There is no doubt that the opponent is the opponent. They have the same or more talents with us. They are competing with us in the same field to catch up with and compete for the Central Plains. They are competing with us for the tickets to the cruise ship on the other side of the success. They are rushing with us to the victory destination. They are striving with us to the top of the tower of hope. Sometimes, because of their existence, the detour of our dream may be full of more difficulties and obstacles.
What is a friend? A friend is the one who always stands by us and watches us silently. A friend is the one who always stands out in a crisis. A friend is the one who shares the same iceberg and the deep sea with us. A friend is the one who always cheers you when you are discouraged. A friend is the one who adds oil to you when you are stagnant. A friend is the one who lights up the light of your life. Because of their existence, our originally difficult life journey has richer, brighter and brighter colors. It can be said that a friend is a palette, a brush to draw a rainbow in life.
Some people will feel cold even in the hot June when they hear their opponents, and feel warm when they see their friends even in the winter and December. Opponents and friends seem to be the opposite of each other. In fact, they are not always friends.
Just ask, friends are the people who make us progress, but opponents are not? Yes, they will indeed put many obstacles on our progress, making us suffer from mental pressure. But from another perspective, just because of such obstacles, such difficulties, we will spare no effort to break through it, surpass it, and get the pleasure of success. At this time, Don‘t the so-called pressure also become a kind of motive force? Friends always open a door for you when your life is low,And the opponent will leave you alone in the dark at this time. You can only find a way to the light in the dark by your repeated and even bloody collision. In this sense, a friend is the one who gives you help and encouragement, while the opponent is the one who helps you. He makes you learn to be independent, persistent and patient, and he can make you “move your heart and be patient, and gain what you can’t”
Life needs friends and rivals. Opponents are friends in another sense. Because of them, our life will not be missing. There is no opponent, and the realm of “wordless going to the west tower alone” is a kind of loneliness, is it also a kind of sadness? Enjoy life, regard opponents as opponents, as friends, and the gloomy life journey will be lighted at this time!