As we all know, keeping friendship is not so easy as making friends. Therefore, it is important for us to know how to get along well with our friends. In order to win lifelong friendship, we should obey the following rules.
　　To begin with, we should be honest with our friends. Lies will surely make them stay far away from us. Second, we should become good listeners as well so that we can have a good understanding of one another. Third, we’d better be humble. If we are too proud before our friends, we can hardly win their respect. Finally, we should not be selfish and should be ready to help our friends whenever they are in trouble, for a friend in need is a friend indeed.
　　In a word, as long as we obey the rules that are mentioned above, we will find it easy to get on well with our friends.

另一篇
　　Friendship plays a big part in our life, just like a home where you can get relaxed. But to keep and form it needs relating and being ready to help others.
　　According to my experience, I think friends bring me not only trust, understanding but also warmth. Once on a weekend I fell badly ill. Unfortunately, I lived at school and my parents had no idea of my illness. I had thought about lying in bed all day. But one of my friends had me sent to hospital and looked after me without having a rest, which made me moved a lot. It is friendship that gives me a hand when I’m in trouble.
　　As I enjoy making friends, I value friendship a lot. And I think friendship is a relationship which requires both honesty with each other and sharing.
　　Thus, to my mind, to build up real friendship, we should make friends with those who we can trust, then take serious concerns on our friendship and always get ready to help each other.

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　　一. what is friendship? it is to relate with somebody without need for money or objective. it is to need emotion and over wealth is friendship , no matter what their background , age , sex or personality. friendship can be pure. we hear , nowdays, however, how one can be cheated by friends. many people get along with someone because they have a lot of money. it is doultful that is real friendship. having friends, one can be find happiness. if you are in trouble your friends will help you through or at least comfort you. when you are happy , they share it with you. they are also there for you to chat with at any time. it is a wonderful feeling, as the proverb says" to love each other is easy but to make frieds is hard", so, it is crutial that we should get along with our friends. in my opinon ,it is a shame to deceive your friends . the world would be more beautiful if it was full of filled with friendship 二. as is known to all, literary works don’t have accurate criteria. so the relationships between writers are very complex. shen congwen and ding ling are just like this. shen and ding both came from hunnan province. they were good friends and lived together with another famous writer hu yeping in 1920s.these young prople were ambitious to make achievements in writing field. they built deep friendship. unfortunately, hu yeping was killed by the kuomintang in 1931.two years later, ding ling was under arrest in the same way. after eacaping, she went to yan’an. and in there she became pursue revolution literatures. thus the gulf between these two persons developed greater and greater, and the conflicts seemed to be hard to compromise.