Most of the time, because of going too fast, a lot of things around are not noticed; Most of the time, you are imprisoned by things around you because you walk too slowly.

Perhaps one of the most common phrases we say in an unfamiliar environment is: You seem to have a certain thought that fills him with feelings about the past. As we learn new things, we try to fit them into a framework that was once familiar so that it doesn‘t seem too alien. So a person can not let go of another person or a thing, because her heart has been rejecting the new world!

I have heard a lot of great truths: don’t be too attached to the past things, to understand that giving up is a choice, but not everyone can have such a high state! In fact, anything that will happen in the future will be judged by future people. How do you know the decision was right until it happens? Sometimes the thought of this heart a panic, we so tired every day struggle, but what is it for? The game of not winning or losing?

Life is a big problem, we are too young!! Because we are too young, we often make mistakes. Confucius said: One cannot stumble over the same stone in the same place. We, on the other hand, often make the wrong decision two or more times before the same event. I don‘t know what is really grown up, in my opinion, grown up people should know not to let their own sad, but people are seven emotions and six desires, emotions and joys and sorrows are very normal, you can in the failure, maintain a success of the arrogant mind? Who can?

Perhaps, really, there is no real growing up! We all the way to look for grow up the shadow, think experienced what, got what can grow up, but, you, and then look back, those shallow deep footprints, the original grew up is just a process.

“Pain is childish moult shell, is to grow up to pay the tax”, sometimes, think as long as the pain, you can understand the true meaning of things, and then meet can deal with! The pain is enough, also understand, again met, afterwards still painful!

There won’t be any smart medicine, just like there won‘t be regret medicine, growing up is a process, and this process, is that you want to use happiness and sorrow to accumulate little drops!